Love is not about you: it is about the object of your love. God is not focused on what He can get out of His relationship with you. He isn’t trying to win your loyalty, He doesn’t need your worship, and He’s not angling to get something back. He is already full. He does not need. But rather than making him aloof and disinterested, His already-full-ness is what allows Him to love us with unconditional, immeasurable, overwhelming abandon. It is precisely because God does not need anything from us that He can love us unconditionally.